What Happens When the Narcissist Realizes You Don’t Want Them Back

When a narcissist realizes that you don’t want them back, it can trigger a range of emotions and behaviors. They may feel a loss of control, anger, sadness, or even desperation. They may also try to manipulate or coerce you into getting back together.

Here are some of the things that might happen when a narcissist realizes you don’t want them back:

• They may try to love bomb you. This is when they suddenly shower you with attention and affection in an attempt to win you back.
• They may play the victim. They may try to make you feel sorry for them by telling you how much they miss you and how much they’ve changed.
• They may try to guilt you. They may try to make you feel like you’re the one who’s to blame for the relationship ending.
• They may try to gaslight you. They may try to make you doubt your own memories or perception of events.
• They may threaten to harm themselves or others. This is a form of emotional blackmail.
• They may stalk or harass you. This is a form of abuse.
• They may try to slander or smear your reputation. This is known as a smear campaign.

If you are in a situation where a narcissist is not accepting your decision to end the relationship, it is important to remember that you are not alone. There are resources available to help you, and you should not be afraid to reach out for support.

Here are some tips for dealing with a narcissist who is not accepting your decision to end the relationship:

• Stay calm and don’t engage with their emotional outbursts.
• Do not give in to their attempts to manipulate or coerce you.
• Set clear boundaries and stick to them.
• Document their behavior in case you need to take legal action.
• Talk to a trusted friend or family member about what you’re going through.
• Seek professional help if you need it.

Remember, you are not responsible for the narcissist’s behavior. You have the right to end the relationship, and you deserve to be happy and safe.